Sunday, November 30, 2014

Live : From 23.000ft Above The Ground

News update from 23.000ft above the ground : we're happy. 
Yes...indeed we are. 

One of those perfect weekend getaway. 
Stealing time from our daily routine, it's nice...something new, something different. 
Hhmmm....it's....something. :)

Our ups for today : maximum time for us and us alone. 
Our downs for today: it's time to go back home. Welcome back real life. 

But hey...no biggie. We're still grateful..
Every moment, every second counts. 

From up in the air *flying above the clouds* we send you our love,
Jane and Goo

Saturday, November 29, 2014

Our First Fight


This is the story about our first fight. 
Just like any other couples, we had our low moments too, we fight. 
But in our case, we'd like to avoid any kind of fight in anyway possible. 
Cause we have very limited time to spend together, so why spoil it with arguing, bitching and fighting. 
But it's bound to happen...and it did. 

Goo was on his week off and in town for a week but fate was not in our favor at the time, I had to leave town for a few days. 
So we decided to spend a day together right before my departure date. 

I took a day of leave from work so we'd have more time. 
He got caught up with work and said that he'd be running late. 
And so I've waited...and waited some more...a lot more actually...like 5 hours to be exact. 
I really don't like waiting, cause it's a completely waste of time in my opinion. 
But for him, I don't mind...but not for 5 hours...my patience was running out. 

I exploded with fury by the time he finally showed up. 
I said all the things that upset me and said that I need time to cool off. 
He sat under a tree and I walked around the park aimlessly, literally walked around the park, like round and round. 
And once I've cooled off, I walked back towards him then said...
"Okay, am calm now. Let's talk"

What he said afterwards really took me by surprise...
"Fun fact...it took you 884 steps for you to finally calm down"

"You were watching me?" I replied. 

"Of course...I worried you might fall down or something"

*Note to readers : I was a bit drunk at that time after having few cocktails while waiting for him.*

"But....I thought that you were playing with you phone" I responded. 

"No...I was just holding my phone so you'd thought that I was busy with something. I didn't take my eyes off of you the entire time you walked around the park" He explained. 

"And you were counting my steps, why?" I asked. 

"I don't know why either. I just did" He answered. 

You see...Goo can be very unattentive most of the time but then he would do something like that and took me by surprise. 
And with that...I instantly forgot about wasting 5 hours, totally forgot about my anger and I kissed him. 

That 884 steps that matter...
That unexpected acts that he did sometime...
That small things...
Melt my heart and he wins my heart over and over. 

Cheers,
Jane


Bring It On

I've been away for too long from this blog. 
Some kind of a writer's block you may call it. 
Or maybe, I'm just not feeling that cheesily romantic... :)

It has been a very hard few months for Goo and I. 
Our workloads are crazy beyond believe. 
And despite stealing a little time here and there to have our quality time, somehow...it's still hard for us. 

But I guess that what makes our relationship stronger. 
Cause long distance relationship makes every problem even more complicated. 
A little miscommunication can lead us to a fight. 
This relationship makes us wiser, more mature and more considerate towards each other. 
We often set aside our ego and make compromises cause we think that it's the key. 

I'm grateful...for every ups and especially downs that Goo and I have. 
If it means that we need to work twice as harder compare to anyone else, well then...bring it on. 
We're ready...!

Cheers,
Jane